Saturday, 18 August 2007

What I'm reading at the moment

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The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Restoring the Character Ethic
by Stephen R. Covey
"Habits are powerful factors in our lives. Because they are consistent, often unconscious patterns, they constantly, daily, express our character and produce our effectiveness... or ineffectiveness."
I was given this book at least 15 years ago and it's been in the pile waiting to be read ever since.

Friday, 17 August 2007

A level result

I keep hanging on thinking I won't update the blog until my A level result arrives by post, as I didn't bother going into Solihull to collect the result in person. Our postman is an interesting character, and often doesn't arrive until after lunch. But eventually the letter turned up, and I got an A, together with notification that my place at Nottingham has been confirmed. I also got a letter from the examining board (AQA) saying that I scored one of the top five marks of the 1572 candidates that took the course. Nice!

The decriminalisation of parking in Leamington has started, meaning that there's been an epidemic of road re-surfacing, pavement repair, line painting, new signs and pay and display machines sprouting from every street corner. Skip outside our front doorThe day when our road was being painted, everyone obediently moved their car elsewhere, except one of the neighbours who had a skip delivered. The double yellow line outside their house now has a skip-sized gap in front of it. On the orders of the council the skip was then moved from its illegal spot outside the neighbour's house to a legal location, directly outside our front door. And, when they re-surfaced the pavements they obscured all the spray-painted instructions, so the line to indicate our garage access wasn't painted. And our parking permits haven't yet arrived - I've had two attempts so far at filling in the forms and providing the correct documentation...

I've finished the garden for the time being, until the fuchsia stops flowering, and then it will be pruned to within an inch of its life, given that it's in the way all the time and needs to be encouraged to find another direction. Actually, I haven't quite finished because I discovered a tub of lawn feed, but it's quite strict about when you can and can't apply it, depending on timing of mowing and rainfall, and the forecast is for showers all the time at the moment. The other risk is that if all the moss is killed, we'll hardly have a lawn at all.

Monday, 13 August 2007

What I'm reading at the moment

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Inside the Body: Fantastic images from beneath the skin
Pictures supplied by the Science Photo Library

To view the banal parts of a human body - be it tooth enamel, or fat - as you have never seen them before is quite astounding. Moreover, you will come across cells and even areas of the body that you might rather not think about, such as the lining of the rectum, and find they actually look pleasingly a little like strawberries."
More looking at the pictures than reading, but it's fascinating.

Saturday, 11 August 2007

Ramblings

The week has gone quickly, and on reflection there's quite a lot I haven't shared here. Our neighbourly cat feeding duties came to an end, but the English Women's Bowls Championships continues, making the residents of Archery Road and the Victorias feel like landed gentry with gatekeepers keeping the riff-raff out.

Last week Nuala turned up out of the blue, with the exciting news that she's leaving AbilityNet for Newcastle University. So many of the 'old' TC/TO's seem to be heading to the education sector. It was great to chat over a beer and catch up with her.

Jason and Liz have produced Lily Edwards, who looks perfect. As with all other parents so far, they didn't want to try out my newborn experiment - I've heard that the grip reflex is so strong just after birth that you can hang a baby on a washing line. I expect I'll have to wait until I have a baby of my own before finding out whether it's true or not.

Mr A and I had an intense session with Glenn the accountant, after which the books were a lot less messy, but I've spent a whole day trying to correct some of the mis-filed entries on the computer, and there's more to do. The weather has been so glorious this week after all that rain in July that I'm not prepared to spend days on end in the office instead of outside.

The garden is now showing my enthusiasm with large gaps where shrubs used to be, and my arms are scratched to pieces from the roses that have been my latest target. There's not that much more to do: a fuchsia and another shrub that is still flowering will have to wait, and the remaining long shoots on the rose bush need threading through the trellis, and that's about it unless I choose to tackle the wisteria. But we really like the wisteria, so I'm tempted to let it have it's own way and take over the whole garden if it wants to.

I had a little trip to IKEA too - what an interesting place that is. It's the little bits and pieces that they put in bins around the place that are so tempting - I picked up a couple of vases for flowers and nearly bought new doormats for the back door when the main intention was to get more shelving for future student books in my room. And to report on the state of shoe racks for Lola II. There turned out to be a whole shoe rack department! Who'd have thought? Now I face the significant task of attaching a rather heavy cupboard to the wall in such a way that it is level and doesn't fall down. Ever.

Richard has had laser eye surgery! We had a beer yesterday in the garden, him sitting in his cool sunglasses. I can't believe he did it. Why would anyone mess with their eyes for cosmetic reasons? Especially as glasses are so light compared to 1969 when I got my first pair... They weighed almost as much as I did back then and now I can hardly tell I'm wearing them.

In between all this accountancy and gardening I've been playing with Facebook. To start with I didn't understand what it was for, but now I go back time after time!

Monday, 6 August 2007

Taming the jungle

The garden is taking a pounding this year, but I'm determined to hack down all the overgrown shrubs so that we can see the ones we like again. Last week I made a determined attack on the Berberis (2cm spikes) and trimmed the rose a bit; yesterday it was the turn of the Ceanothus and a ton of mud from the gutter at the same time. Today I plan to take on the Forsythia, which has taken over about thirty square feet of garden that it would be nice to see again.

By the way, all these plant names may or may not be correct - people who know such things have wandered by and dropped names at me that I think I've remembered correctly. If my camera weren't broken I'd take pictures, but it seems to be chewing up the memory cards at the moment.

Apart from the garden, my huge list of summer tasks is starting to show signs that I've been getting things done. The tax return is filed and I even managed to complete the soul-destroying 16-page application form for the NHS Bursary I hope to get for the duration of the course. I do hope they are satisfied with all the proof I submitted - passport to show I exist, tax forms to show I have supported myself for the last 72 months, other tax forms to show I won't be able to support myself for the next 72 months, Mr A's tax forms to show he can't support me either, even our marriage certificate to show... that I haven't invented him? Not sure why they need to see that.

Today's jobs include replacing the rope on the laundry airer pulley as well as waging war on Forsythia, so I'd better get on with that now.

Wednesday, 1 August 2007

Summertime, and the living is easy

So Mr A and I were sitting in the garden at the end of the day yesterday, drinking tea and coffee in the sunshine, and looking at the house and the garden thinking how lucky we are to live here. The English Women's Bowling competition is on at the bowling club, it hasn't rained for three days, the garden's showing the effect of my hacking things down and we aren't yet insolvent. So that's good.

Monday, 30 July 2007

Birthday fun

So I'm now 43 and it's been such fun, starting with my unofficial birthday yesterday because it was Sunday and Mr A had the day off. We assembled my new trampoline, watched 'From Russia With Love', and Lola II turned up.

Today was my real birthday, and while Mr A was working hard, the two Lolas were mucking about in Leamington, including lunch at the Saxon Mill and 'Hairspray' (another strong recommendation, especially the bit with the whoopee cushions).

Birthday cards have been interesting this year. One was from the Admissions team at Coventry University, my reserve choice for the dietetics course, so that was a little odd. Mr A gave me a nice card that was exactly the same as one I had previously bought for such occasions. What a coincidence! except that he'd forgotten to get a card so it actually was the one I'd previously bought. The Perry's card was hilariously tasteless (thanks all the same) but the prize goes to Lola II:

A photograph of two old ladies with headscarves, dressed in shapeless clothes, thick stockings and unfashionable shoes, one carrying a plastic bag and the other a walking stick. Captioned: A sister is, as it were, a second self.

I'm the one on the right (obviously).

Sunday, 29 July 2007

What I'm reading at the moment

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Teleportation: The Impossible Leap
by David Darling

"No longer the stuff of science fiction, teleportation has become a reality. Though the current state of this cutting-edge science can transport only such light fare as sub-atomic particles, it is simply a matter of time before larger atoms, molecules, and eventually living things take the ultimate thrill ride."
I love quantum mechanics. I can actually feel my brain stretching.

Friday, 27 July 2007

Some of what happened in July

After the exams at the end of June, I spent July getting out and about around the country to see people. Thanks to Bruce and Jane, Lisa and Mags, Hugh and Bernadette, Helen and Gail, Vajrapriya and Vajradevi, Michael, Jim and Jane, Steve and Sian, Lola II, mum and dad, Kate and Richard, Mark and Nick, and Julian and Carole for putting up with me in the last month! It was really good to catch up with everyone.

To start July off, Mr A and I went to a 50th birthday party held in an amazing converted water tower in Surrey. Not being party animals, we excused ourselved early and stayed with Bruce and Jane, where I saw the most over-engineered steam iron in the world, the Devlin collection of well-ordered bicycles, and a lot of rain - the theme for July, I'm sure you'll agree

Car stuck in mudNext I went to the Royal Show, the national agricultural exhibition held at Stoneleigh Park up the road from Leamington. If you listen to the Archers, you will have heard that Adam, Alice, Oliver, Ruth and David went to the show. What they didn't mention on the Archers was the torrential rain, which didn't dampen spirits so much in the show itself, although I felt sorry for the horseriders who had to carry on splashing about brightly in their posh jackets while getting soaked to the skin. The main problem was the car parks, which developed into mudbaths and needed tractors to ferry people across the small rivers flowing through the fields between the show and their cars. We all had to be towed out by tractor (backwards in my case). It was worth going though - highlights were Peter Purvis introducing the dog agility, the falconry (I always go to see the falconry), and pigs winning prizes. Lucky I didn't wait until the last day to attend - they had to cancel the whole show because of the state of the car parks.

Mr A went off to Belgium for a few days to cycle round the WW1 battlefields around Ypres with Tony, leaving me to play badminton, contribute to a nearly winning team at the pub quiz, go to see 'Grow Your Own' at Warwick Arts Centre (good film, I recommend it), go to the optician (my corrected sight is better than the average person), and sort out some of the garden in between downpours.

Vajrapriya and Vajradevi sitting on a sculpture that looks like a seat but is an open bookThen it was time to sally forth into the wilds of Cambridgeshire, where I had a great time picnicking, examining Art in Jesus College, listening to live music in the park, and watching the Race for Life - well done Jane and Laura (I paid for my enthusiasm when Laura extracted sponsorship money from me). I do believe that it didn't rain all that much for the whole weekend.

As I left Cambridge and pootled along the A14 towards Peterborough there was a huge Bang from the passenger side of the car, and the window descended a few inches, followed by a second loug Bang when it disappeared entirely into the door cavity. Much debate took place through the evening including with Mr A and John (our specialist car glass friend) but there seemed nothing sensible could be done other than tape over the hole and park somewhere safe. This threatened to upset my travel plans - there's no way I'd be going to Manchester with a missing car window!

Luckily I managed to find a garage in Leamington that could fix the window in time, and I was all set for the northern leg of my trip. As well as a lovely evening with Lisa and Mags, I managed to fit in a visit to the Wildlife Photography exhibition at the Manchester Museum and a brief look at the stuffed animals, where I learned such facts as that no bird has more than four toes, the ostrich only has two, some birds have a toe facing backwards, and the swift has four toes of which two can face forwards or backwards at will. Not useful, but interesting. Then I met Hugh and Bernadette and we 'wandered' around Altricham, if you can call it wandering with Hugh pushing the wheelchair up inclines of one in three. Worth it for the fresh orange juice, though.

The next day was miserable; it didn't stop raining all morning so we were confined to Bernadette's room except when we were displaced into the corridor by the cleaners. I watched Bargain Hunt for the first time - it's a fairly entertaining concept, I admit - and then after lunch it was off up the M6 in the pouring rain to Carlisle. Gail and Helen with dogsThe evening's entertainment was provided in part by Helen and Gail's neighbours' mouse, which was addressed with conflicting messages: "Don't eat the poison!" (It succumbed the next day). Walking the dogs, eating, visiting more friends and Team America on DVD made for a good time, while basking in the attention of Harvey, my boxer boyfriend.

After a short accountancy lesson in Whaley Bridge I was set to do a day on Mr A's accounts before the next expedition, in a southerly direction this time. Lola II and I took our nephew David out to dinner and then a comedy gig as part of the Ealing festival, for his 18th birthday. I love Marcus Brigstocke - it partly made up for the time I'd bought tickets for his show at Warwick Arts Centre and then totally forgot to go. The next day dad and I went to the Wellcome Collection and the British museum, separated by lunch with Kate and Richard, before Lola II joined us for Harry Potter in the evening. A misjudgement the next day meant that I only had time for lunch with Marcus at the Horniman Museum followed by about 15 minutes in the galleries before having to rush back to Ealing for a massage. Mum and dad were able to see a bit more of the museum but then had a nightmare journey back home because of the rain and flooding in London.

On Saturday Daphne and the two Vajra's joined Lola II and me for some Blues in the park, again part of the Ealing festival. Luckily we were early enough to set up camp inside the main stage marquee, because the rain outside was torrential. The music was very fine, although Paul Jones didn't do as much upbeat stuff as I'd have liked. Jeremiah Marques and The Blue Aces was certainly upbeat enough for Daphne, who danced until she was as pink as can be. Far too early on Sunday I was on my way to Bournemouth, where Mr A met me, and we joined the party that had been celebrating Julian's 60th birthday (despite his pneumonia). Some of them had already set off for a three-hour coast walk, and we'd arranged to meet them at the end. Two hours later than scheduled and having had no lunch, they eventually phoned us, so we all headed off to a slap-up feed at a pub overlooking Corfe Castle and the Purbecks.

So the last July event was going to be the Acoustic Festival of Britain, taking place in Nantwich this coming weekend, but I was emailed yesterday to say it was cancelled because of the waterlogged conditions. We were really looking forward to it, and I was feeling smug about not going to the Cambridge Folk Festival now that it's got so crowded and tickets being so difficult to get hold of - but Cambridge is still going ahead... Not so smug now.

Thursday, 26 July 2007

Some history

I'm a month late starting this blog - I wanted to get going in June but didn't get round to it. So there's some back story to add:-

17 June 07

Well, I've been unemployed for a week now, but it doesn't feel like it yet. Lots of revision for the exams next week, although I managed to do some of it outside in the garden until the rain came. Quite impressive rain - the local news said that some Leamington houses had been flooded, but not ours unless you count the way the shower drain backs up when a month's rain falls in a day. After the exams I'll be able to get out and look under the drain cover...

"After the exams" is a bit of a recurring theme. The kitchen light bulb that blew about two months ago is still there, and a million other jobs are waiting to be done. Including unpacking the bags of stuff that I brought home from work - what on earth shall I do with my Karting trophy, for example? I don’t have space for a little museum like I had on my desk in Birmingham...

We've tried to change to a more local way of buying food, which has helped me to get away from my desk and out of the house to the greengrocer a few times last week. This weekend was the Leamington Peace Festival, an annual event with all sorts of stalls offering tie-dye hippy clothing, different kinds of meditation, interesting 'herbs' and smoking apparatus, jewellery, minority religions, things made out of wood and conservation organisations, all accompanied by live music. All for free. Saturday was a bit wet but I wandered over there today, and even bought a hat. See, I can do shopping!

So next week I've got these exams on Tuesday and Friday, and then I'll be able to see what it really feels like to be unemployed. I'm looking forward to playing badminton again at last, hoping to have a few games of tennis, and I've already planned a few trips around the country, so I expect I'll be able to fit in a trip to Café Soya some time soon. Looking forward to it already!

Biology Fact of the Day: The human heart muscle contracts around two and a half billion times during a lifetime.

Lola Fact of the Day: I'm still wearing my new hat.